Getting your "P" Back: What about your friends, Week 5

Hello, my beautiful people! I trust you all had an absolutely fantastic week, and if not, fret not - there's still plenty of time to turn it around and make it a truly stunning finale! Now, let's dive into our discussion for today - a topic that I'm sure resonates with each and every one of us, perhaps even more so now (I know I can relate)! Let's chat about our "friends," "sis," "cousin," or hey, even "family." I can almost hear some of you thinking, "What's she going to say now? Are friends off-limits?" Well, let me assure you, that's a big NO! I'm certainly not suggesting that, nor would I ever. Surrounding yourself with genuine, trustworthy individuals who shower you with love whether to your face, behind your back, and stand by you through thick and thin is crucial. But let's be real, such gems aren't always easy to come by. Even those you've known for what feels like a lifetime might not necessarily have your best interests at heart. It's a common scenario, and sometimes we only realize it when it's too late. So, stay vigilant, my lovelies, and cherish those who truly value you for who you are!

Having friends is essential, but recognizing when a friendship has run its course is crucial. I can confidently say that I have genuine, supportive friends in my life right now. My circle consists of four empowered women who excel in their careers, manage their homes, nurture their relationships (or marriages), and pursue entrepreneurship. With age comes the realization that true friends are those who are authentic and rare to find in today's world. It's important to assess the value of a friendship: Are you both benefiting? Are you growing together? Do you sense a shift in dynamics or energy? These are indicators that a friendship may have run its course, and it's okay to acknowledge that it's time to move on.

So, like, I've realized in the past few years that some people I thought were my friends, even family, weren't really there for me. When I started making changes to improve myself and took some time for myself, these people suddenly changed on me so fast. I was like, okay, let me take a step back and reevaluate things. I had to look at my friendships and think, maybe it's time to reassess my circle and figure out who's really there for me (and honestly, a lot of the people I grew up with aren't really around anymore). I just want everyone to get that just because I've known you forever doesn't mean you automatically get to be my friend, you know?

It's truly remarkable how we engage with numerous individuals we label as friends, yet authentic friendship is a precious rarity! While these supposed friends may present a friendly facade, it's imperative to be vigilant for warning signs. It's crucial to discern when playful banter transforms into envy and animosity. Refuse to overlook toxic conduct - now is the moment to encircle yourself with sincere, encouraging friends who uplift you! Your achievements warrant genuine supporters, not covert detractors. Remain vigilant and value those who genuinely support you!

It's important for me to surround myself with people who genuinely support me and wish me well in all aspects of my life. If someone isn't able to do that, then I have to prioritize my own well-being and let them go. While it was difficult to part ways with friends I've known for over 20 years, I've come to realize that quality is more important than quantity when it comes to friendships. I am grateful for the lessons learned and the growth that has come from these experiences.

I've learned that there is undeniable truth behind jokes. Trust your energy; if something feels off, it's perfectly fine to acknowledge that it's not for you anymore. I confidently walk away from friendships and situations with peace of mind because my well-being is my top priority. If you disrupt my peace in any way, then you simply have to go.

I want to emphasize that walking away from a friendship does not indicate animosity or hatred. It is natural for people to grow and sometimes grow apart, and that's perfectly fine. I sincerely wish you success on your journey, but we must each follow our own paths. I care about you and only want the best for you, even if our paths diverge. It's important to understand that this decision does not stem from negative feelings like hatred or gossip. I prioritize moving forward peacefully and positively, without dwelling on negativity or causing harm. Let's focus on progress and moving forward harmoniously.

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